This is Our Song

Introduction

Music connects us in unique ways, telling stories that resonate with different stages of our lives. In this blog post, I'll share the inspiration behind my latest piece, "This is Our Song" and my journey with love songs, as well as how music can be both healing and deeply personal.

This is Our Song

Are you thinking this is a love song? But no, it isn't. I created this piece of music because of a dream. And that dream had nothing to do with romantic love relationships. Please check it out here.:) I won't say it's a piece of sad music because it isn't. It's a slow piece though. But if you prefer an upbeat piece, you might want to check out this music video with the same title.

Love Songs, Anyone?

I believe all of us go through a stage in our lives where we like love songs. For me, it's no different. But I'm no longer in that stage of life. 

To me, romantic love no longer matters. I've too much on my plate right now and I've too many things that I want to do in life. And so it's no longer something I want. 

I'd rather live a fulfilled life pursuing what matters to me. I might decide to write love songs again though. But even if I do, it'll only be for commercial reasons. 

Does anyone like Unchained Melody? Being someone who hardly listens to English pop songs, this is one of the very few songs that I've ever heard and liked. Take My Breath Away is another English pop song that I like.:) 

Actually I prefer Mandarin songs, but not because I'm a Chinese. Rather, it's partly because of the environment I grew up in.

What Kind of Music/Songs Do You Like?

For me, I prefer songs/music with an upbeat tempo. But I like certain sad songs/music too, because they're able to help me heal from my emotional pain. 

As I create impromptu music that sounds sad, it actually has a healing effect on me. And maybe the healing music that flows from the deepest part of my being will become your favourite music? Maybe, I mean. And maybe any healing song that I compose will become your song too? So, this is our song? Just maybe, I mean.

This is Our Song?

I'm drawn to songs with music that appeals to me. I know this is something that's subjective. What appeals to me might not appeal to you and vice-versa. Our Song by Willie Nelson has the kind of music that somewhat appeals to me. Check it out!

Conclusion 

Music is deeply subjective, resonating differently for everyone. Whether you prefer upbeat, slow or healing tunes, the right song can feel like it’s ours. 

I hope that through sharing my thoughts and my music, you'll find music that resonates with your story. After all, music is a universal language that speaks to our shared experiences.


Cheers,

Annie Chan

(P/s: Please subscribe to my YouTube channel here: Annie's Music Everywhere. Thanks!:)

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