Beyond Your Control There will always be things that are beyond our control. So instead of sulking and feeling hopeless, we could choose to focus on what we can control.  You Have Control Even in seemingly hopeless situations, there are things that we can control. Trust me. I've been in seemingly hopeless situations many times and I used to think that the only thing I could do in such situations is to accept my fate. However, my mindset started changing for good when I started watching videos of Tony Robbins & Dean Graziosi and joining their Facebook groups.  Choices No matter how hopeless a situation may be, you still have choices. You still have control over your choices .  The fact that I had choices didn't cross my mind until someone in one of the Facebook groups brought that to my attention. It was as if I suddenly had a light-bulb moment. And upon reflecting on what she said, I'd to admit she was right! Focus on What's Within Your Control I know it's easy